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The Adversity Arsenal.... how I have learned it well! Not my choosing it - everything else chose me. I had always considered these things almost like a curse, things happening from toddlerhood including all types of abuse, etc., and different illnesses.

It took a toll on my faith, and I questioned God all the time, even shook my fist at the heavens at times.

Didn't want to be here, didn't know why I was sent here and was ready to leave!

But as I'm matured and started looking at things a different way and yes, even looking back. We should look back to see where we came from and what we've come through. I began to see these what I thought was curses as actual blessings in disguise.

It didn't happen suddenly or quickly it took time.

But it did happen. And then around age 27 and forward, I've been able to use a lot of those things that happened in my very early years of growth and development to help others and set an example instead of complaining or thinking it was a curse of some kind.

Thank you for the reminder 🙏

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It didn’t happen suddenly for me either, Kathleen, but I’m glad you too came to see things as blessings in disguise. Thanks for reading and sharing.

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Oct 13Liked by Tracy Mansolillo

I appreciate you sharing how your faith played a role in your journey. I often hesitate to discuss my faith online because it doesn't fit neatly in a box (I grew up in a 2 religion household), but it was so instrumental during my health crisis.

Fantastic article all around 💕

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Thank you, Xandra for reading and commenting. Much appreciated.

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Thank you, Tracy. Your thoughtful, helpful and wise words are greatly appreciated.

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Thank you for this thoughtful and enlightening piece. You will help many people with your wisdom.

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Thank you for reading and commenting, Leslye.

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This is a terrific list, Tracy! All valuable skills that have helped me along the way. I love the term "adversity arsenal", for obvious reasons 😀

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P.S. During these turbulent times, Ted Lasso is what I watch for comfort and wisdom. And Winnie-the-Pooh has always been my guru.

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Thank you, Nancy. Yes my gurus too!

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