Dating after my divorce was the last thing on my mind. I was drained and happy to be alone and at peace. I remained that way for several years. I focused on raising my son and healing from infidelity. In time, I realized I was too young to give up on dating. But everything had changed.
Hi Chris! Thanks for reading and commenting. You’ve articulated the issues with dating apps so well! Hope you are well also. I have not been active in Slack- hope I didn’t miss too many notes there!
But dating apps are so much fun! (Cough, cough bullshit cough cough) all the deep connections you form, the ability to really get a feel for people....
Ok, so maybe that's mostly horse shit... i think that is probably a lot of what's wrong lately. It's so easy to just dismiss people. Swipe right by. Eehhh, that just looks complicated, he doesn't look like he does anything, does she do anything other than go to the bar?
Or people are posting the highlight reels from their life. Although those aren't the things that i want to know. I want to know the things you don't want to say, the times you struggled, how'd you get through those? You know, those couch conversations.
As usual, your thoughts are clear and concise. And you deserve the best,so never settle.
You are a wise women Tracy Mansolillo! You will know when ya know & no settling for almost right.
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Hi Chris! Thanks for reading and commenting. You’ve articulated the issues with dating apps so well! Hope you are well also. I have not been active in Slack- hope I didn’t miss too many notes there!
But dating apps are so much fun! (Cough, cough bullshit cough cough) all the deep connections you form, the ability to really get a feel for people....
Ok, so maybe that's mostly horse shit... i think that is probably a lot of what's wrong lately. It's so easy to just dismiss people. Swipe right by. Eehhh, that just looks complicated, he doesn't look like he does anything, does she do anything other than go to the bar?
Or people are posting the highlight reels from their life. Although those aren't the things that i want to know. I want to know the things you don't want to say, the times you struggled, how'd you get through those? You know, those couch conversations.
Hope you're doing good!